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Breaking the fetish seal [real life, non-erotic story]

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Breaking the fetish seal [real life, non-erotic story]

Post by FNG » 30 Oct 2016, 13:18

This is a story about the most recent events in my life concerning this fetish. Before I share my experience, I will reveal some back-story about myself. To start off, I have had this fetish for years but never explored it, i.e. never had a female burp in my face or never got to be with someone who burps. In addition, I have a more dominant fetish that coexists with the burping fetish: a breath fetish. Some of you might have heard of a 'bad breath' fetish but instead I have the opposite fetish: I'm sexually aroused by a specific sweet breath (of a female). This is an omnipresent fetish that cannot be controlled as it is unconsciously linked to my sense of smell. This brings me to my problem.

The burping fetish makes it easier for me to imagine someone’s breath when I watch c4s or youtube videos but when I'm with someone in real life it kills my arousal when the female that I'm with, happens to not have a -what I consider- 'good breath'. This has made sex very awkward and the first time was a complete failure as I was not only too excited but I was so used to the burp videos that I couldn't get an erection. (Luckily the girl was drunk so I don't think she remembered me or my inability) After that, every time I tried, it resulted in a similar situation mostly because my confidence decreased even more with each time. I realised that if I didn't help myself, this would only get worse and eventually I would end up a miserable man. (I can only imagine how bizarre this story might already seem to even this community)

Finally, I decided to relieve myself of this burden. Some people might find what I did next pathetic. Where I live prostitution is legal and there are many escort organizations, so by this point the only way to get my fetish desires fulfilled was through the use of money. I could've worked on a relationship with a female and hoped that I had the courage to reveal this fetish, but honestly it is just too bizarre to even talk about. I can't imagine ever talking about it as it would sound very childish and weird, in my opinion. Anyway, I ordered an escort and discussed my plans over the phone. Funny enough, I even got rejected a couple of times :)) , I wasn't even disappointed instead I had a good laugh. To think that women who put pee-sex on their résumé would refuse to burp for someone during sex, is the ultimate joke. So after going through three women, I finally found one that was okay with it. The sex wasn't anything special and I'll spare you the details, if you have seen any burping-during-sex videos (from biancalala for example) then you get the idea.

In conclusion, I will have to say that this experience was by far the most eye-opening experience that I have ever had in my life. Not only have I lost my desire for burp-sex, it's for the first time in my life that I am more interested in different aspects of the female body (before, the only thing next to the fetishes that could get me aroused was large breasts). Seriously, I was shocked at how uncomfortable it seemed for the female to burp every now and then, if it were a personal session the woman would constantly have been disrupted and it would take her away from the intimacy. I would not wish this upon anyone that is with me, such a selfish act. Basically, it made me realise that even if I had a loving girlfriend who knew about my fetishes, I would still not be able to fully enjoy sex, simply for the fact that she would never genuinely be satisfied if she had to please me with burping or having eaten something that gave her a sweet breath (at least that is what I think). Ultimately, I think that those who are old enough should try this method of exploring the fetish only if utterly desperate, otherwise I wouldn't recommend it.

This was a long post, but the essence of this story is that if this fetish causes deep problems then you should try to resolve them by facing them head-on. Anyway, I hope the story could be of any help to some of you, otherwise I hope that it was a funny/awkward story to read. :ymsmug:

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Re: Breaking the fetish seal [real life, non-erotic story]

Post by pu_sh_it » 30 Oct 2016, 13:49

Several things.

1) Getting a prostitute is not pathetic IMO. Sometimes when you're going through a dry spell it's the only way to finally get some action again. I myself have never gotten one but I would consider it if I were wealthy enough and bored enough. Maybe a porn star escort. I figure, I've spent enough money on burping videos that paying for sex is no big problem. And if it's legal in your country, that suggests it's even more socially acceptable there.

2) Congratulations for resolving this problem! It isn't healthy (again IMO) to be aroused only by fetishes (in your case burping and sweet breath) to the exclusion of plain old attraction to the opposite sex. The burp fetish is a big part of my sexuality but in no way is it a necessary thing either for attraction to a girl or for sex to be pleasurable or even to happen. Just fucking and doing oral sex with a hot girl who I care about is more than enough for me, burping can be a nice bonus though. Keep getting interested in female body parts, I LOVE their asses :D And watch some normal porn to build up an interest in sex and some (health) perversity.

3) I understand that you found it uncomfortable asking for a girl to do that and that she felt awkward and that it disrupted the intimacy. But, I disagree with some of your points. A prostitute is a professional provider of sex. Part of that professionalism may be catering to fetishes. If I pay for her to deepthroat my cock all the way down, I want her to be able to do that and with no awkwardness. If I pay for her to burp on it or in my face during sex, and IF she caters for that, I'd expect her to be able to do that and with no awkwardness. She'd probably still be able to derive a lot of pleasure from being fucked and possibly from the act of turning me on with burping. Of course though, it's a very niche request and not one she's probably ever done before. Another part of why you think she thought it was uncomfortable may have been you projecting your guilt and awkwardness onto her, to an extent. But in general, I'd expect consummate professionalism from a prostitute in these matters.

4) When it comes to having a loving girlfriend, you can't just say "she would never genuinely be satisfied if she had to please me with burping or having eaten something that gave her a sweet breath". Some indeed may be like that. But with others. she could be more than happy to do that for you; she might even come to find it arousing to do it, like in Riley Jane's fetish clips for example. You can also cater to her own fetish(es) as a form of reciprocation. Indeed I'd expect that in a loving relationship. My last girlfriend was more than happy to burp in my face, she couldn't do it during oral sex though. So you take what you get in each specific situation. I think you're just feeling guilty and awkward over it, and it in no way has to be a selfish act unless you make it so. So don't rule it out for one or even several of your future relationships. :)

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Re: Breaking the fetish seal [real life, non-erotic story]

Post by FNG » 30 Oct 2016, 17:50

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Thank you for your reaction, pushit.
I would first like to clear up some things that you mentioned.

To begin with, honestly I wasn't concerned with the prostitute's feelings towards the request, really she is just getting paid to help me with my fantasies. In addition, the prostitute didn't feel uncomfortable doing it for me, I just imagined that if I were with a different girl the situation would be uncomfortable because she would have to either drink something in-between kissing, oral sex, et cetera or she would have to make herself burp. Thus, it would require her to focus on something else and it could get distracting. I'll explain it this way, if a girl asked me to burp for her during sex, I would gladly do it but I don't think that I would be able to be turned on unless she would stimulate me with a hand job or something. It's like you said in your fourth point, if you don't give something in return, the intimacy will be lost. That is why I paid a prostitute to do it for me, so that I couldn't feel guilty for only receiving pleasure and not really giving any (well perhaps the prostitute was somewhat satisfied as she had trouble standing up due to weak knees). Basically, the session that I paid for, made me realise that I wouldn't want the fetish to be implemented if I were to have sex with a (future) girlfriend. Maybe during foreplay or maybe it could accidentally initiate sex while watching a movie or something, but the point is that I didn't want to depend on it. (As for the breath fetish, I can't get rid of it but I have noticed that I'm less sensitive to it after this experience. Before the experience I was reluctant to kissing, out of fear that bad breath would turn me off, but now I can't imagine not kissing. I am also more tolerant to different scents now.)

Lastly, the real reason why I got used to watching burp videos instead of normal porn, was that I got off faster to burp videos. Watching normal porn for me was practically like having sex for over an hour and I didn't have time for that as I usually like to have a quick masturbation session before going to sleep. However, with this experience it has definitely become easier to use normal porn as 'quick fap material'. :p

I am glad that you could empathise with some of my decisions. It is interesting to see how other people react to something that I find quite ridiculous when I think about it. I will probably not rule the fetish out of any relationship, but I think that it would be healthier if I went into a relationship without taking into consideration if the girl could fulfil my fetish desires. I am genuinely more interested in pleasuring that future person, because I have always wanted to be able to make a female orgasm. In return the sensation of that girlfriend would naturally become my pleasure: the joy of accomplishing something intimate. Anyway, thanks for the response.

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