I don't know the model. But let me be absolutely clear. Spending the time and money to find models is a service. That's it. I don't know why you think you are owed that service for nothing. But I will not give out a service for free. The reason is that lurkers and such do not contribute, so it's a bum deal. I spend hundreds of dollars and hours of time so that someone that doesn't spend anything can get a nice show and not have to do the work. I don't know why you can't understand that. Honestly, I wouldn't mind giving it out for free if more people did so as well. But I will not, at this point in time, give it out for free simply because people think they have a right to it and that I should help the model.moonerbutt wrote: ↑21 Jul 2018, 01:33Since you're trying to make a point...
A performer is not your property. IDC how much time or money you spent on them. That idea is so wrong, I don't even know how to properly approach it.
Additionally, you totally could have kept your mouth shut about it and hoped no one else discovered him. Actually, I don't think what you actually did matters... Because he's a performer, and ultimately he does get to make the final call. People will or won't find him with or without your help.
At this point, the only reason I'm arguing is because it's crazy that you have the arrogance to think this guy is yours to manage. Even to go so far as to believe it's justified for you to vet who does or does not see him, all without his consent. That's some abusive/controlling terrifying relationship shit, and he doesn't even know someone is treating him like that...
IDK- I can understand your want/need to keep him to yourself, and feel special in that way. I get that. What I don't get, is the idea that you can go an extra step in actively controlling who this guy is and isn't allowed to get into contact with. Maybe I'm overreacting? IDK if others have the same thoughts about this, or maybe I'm misinterpreting, but if feeeels pretty dang clear that this is your modus operandi.
I don't care about the model as much as I care about the hole in my pocket from finding said model. I want to encourage people to contribute, not encourage people to freeload. I advertised so that I could build a private group of people that could share amongst ourselves. And it has been met with great results. Again, I will not ease up on this unless more people contribute. I can be generous, Hell, I was the one that put the XXX camshows in the database, I've found and posted at least 7 names over the past year.
But again, you do not have a right to the names that me and other people have worked hard to find. Many of us love to give these models attention, and it's great that people are so eager to buy from them. But again, why on earth do you think that me and two others should spend all of the money to get you names of models so that you don't have to waste your money testing them out? Either pay us for finding you models or be happy that I'm giving it to you for free over a PM.