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Theory on what causes burping fetish

General discussion of the burping fetish.
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Jerryfromfinance
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Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by Jerryfromfinance » 11 Jul 2018, 19:34

I have a theory why so many people have this specific fetish. I read somewhere that sexuality and fetishes develop either in utero or in early stages of life. A theory on why so many people have foot fetishes is because when you are an embryo, your feet are very close to your genitalia. This might make some people associate feet with sex early on. My theory is that a burp fetish stems from being burped as a baby. Mabe, you happened to be in a state of arousal (a boner) when you got burped, and it made you develop an association between burp and sex. Also, you might have been in a state of arousal hearing someone else burp. There is a photo of my grandfather burping with me as a baby, and I'm lowkey wondering if he made me this way.

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by Alec » 11 Jul 2018, 20:30

That's a cool theory, although how does this explain how women get the fetish? Surely infant girls don't get aroused accidentally the way infant boys can

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by subliminal91 » 13 Jul 2018, 03:06

Very interesting, and I think it's plausible. I'm told that my cousin who is about 12 years older than me used to rip massive belches, and she spent a lot of time at my family's house in my infancy. Sigmund Freud talks about the mother's face being the (male) baby's first object of desire and first object that that makes the baby himself feel desired- I think it's equally possible that this cousin was an early object of desire for me and, well, if she was ripping huge burps all the time at that critical stage of development, that might be the reason right there.

I also had trouble burping as an infant, so perhaps I connected the relief of burping with sexual release.

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by Alec » 13 Jul 2018, 21:30

subliminal91 wrote:
13 Jul 2018, 03:06
Very interesting, and I think it's plausible. I'm told that my cousin who is about 12 years older than me used to rip massive belches, and she spent a lot of time at my family's house in my infancy. Sigmund Freud talks about the mother's face being the (male) baby's first object of desire and first object that that makes the baby himself feel desired- I think it's equally possible that this cousin was an early object of desire for me and, well, if she was ripping huge burps all the time at that critical stage of development, that might be the reason right there.

I also had trouble burping as an infant, so perhaps I connected the relief of burping with sexual release.
Just want to point out that the majority of Sigmund Freud’s ideas have been widely abandoned by psychologists, including this idea because by that logic any child raised by a single father should be into men, and that’s just not how things work. So while this is an interesting theory, I think we’d have to look outside of Freud for any psychological evidence supporting it.

The point about connecting relief of burping with sexual relief is interesting though and one I’ve seen before. Pairing that with your cousin belching a lot around you as a child makes it more interesting.

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by SpasticSpecter154 » 24 Jul 2018, 02:16

Considering sexual fetishes are a deviation from what's understood to be regular sexual expressions, I'd think the more adventurous ones rely on the mental state of the fetishist. A sad truth I've come to realize is that the most vocal of any fetish community also admits to having some form of autism. Whether that makes them more prone to speaking about 'that which must not be named' or if a mental disability is the underlying cause for them prioritizing and pursuing their fantasies in a way most adults wouldn't is something more reasonably answered by actual psychiatrists and people with a history of education in the field of mental health.

It's certainly not the default state of sexuality to isolate one aspect of life and derive all pleasure from that one thing while deriving significantly less (or even none at all) when such a thing is absent. You'd have to be some sort of enthusiast to find something so far away from regular sexual conduct as expelling trapped stomach gas stimulating.

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by ticklemywickle » 24 Jul 2018, 04:10

As a kid, I started having sexual feelings very early on. I first started masturbating when I was 5. And my mom has a problem where she burps uncontrollably, pretty much all the time. Very loudly. You can hear it throughout the house. So my theory as to how I developed this fetish is that maybe when I was younger, I was masturbating and I kept hearing my mom belch, and I associated sexual pleasure with that sound.

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by eskimo » 30 Jul 2018, 01:21

ticklemywickle wrote:
24 Jul 2018, 04:10
As a kid, I started having sexual feelings very early on. I first started masturbating when I was 5. And my mom has a problem where she burps uncontrollably, pretty much all the time. Very loudly. You can hear it throughout the house. So my theory as to how I developed this fetish is that maybe when I was younger, I was masturbating and I kept hearing my mom belch, and I associated sexual pleasure with that sound.
I also started masturbating around that time (probably even younger) out of curiosity. I had a full-time nanny who had a burping problem and would burp all the time. The same thing probably happened to me and this would explain a lot if it's scientific.

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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by Dalacin » 04 Aug 2018, 07:52

In my house burping was like the most disgusting and rude thing you could do ever, which made it super forbidden and taboo, even in movies that had them or shows, the scene had to be skipped cause it was seen as so inappropiate... I think having it as such a delicate subject makes it tempting and kind of arousing? At least I think that is my case. I also hate that cause now I suck at burping and I can't do it on command [-(
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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by Omnius » 04 Aug 2018, 17:46

Interesting theory. I've often wondered... I feel like burps have always been something intense and different for me so I just conclude I was born this way for some reason. Its a strange feeling to like something such as burping so intensely and sexually yet not actually know why. I would love to see a brain scan of a burp fetishist while they watch their favourite burps, would be interesting to see which areas light up and how it compares to someone without a fetish watching porn etc. Alas, I don't think there will ever be too much in depth study into burping fetish specifically (unlesss we fund it ourselves lol)
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Re: Theory on what causes burping fetish

Post by purple525 » 18 Aug 2018, 23:01

I believe that the development of a fetish could happen in three ways:
1. It has to do with conditioning - the process whereby a response becomes more or predictable in a given environment as a result of reinforcement. Everyone knows the experiment with Pavlov's dogs where the bell was rang at meal time and the dogs came to associate the sound of the bell with food and would salivate each time they heard the bell ringing. Based on my knowledge of psychology, I think that this could easily be how we develop fetishes. We experience a certain event and it makes us feel turned on, and so in future we experience the same feeling by reliving that experience - either in our imagination or in reality.

2. Another theory that I have is that a fetish is a manifestation of desire for another person - for example, a fetish for painted fingernails could stem from a time when you saw someone beautiful who had painted nails. Every time you see painted nails in future, you will think of that person and your (sexual) feelings for them. Fetishism is replacing a person with an attribute or a quality - something that is a part of that person - and then generalising it to other people and situations. If during childhood you saw/heard/smelled someone attractive burping, you could then develop a fetish for it in the wider context.

3. Fetishes could also be a subversion of an event that was unpleasant. You could have had a bad experience with burping that traumatised or upset you in some way. You could then try to rationalise it in your mind and force yourself to see it as being less upsetting than it was. This could then lead to it becoming a turn-on. I know that I personally had a few very nasty incidents during childhood that involved burping - for example, when I was 8 I felt really sick and burped and then threw up everywhere. It was awful and after that I was afraid to burp for a long time. Then I came to see that it was something I couldn't avoid and that I had to deal with my fear of it. After that it became pleasurable for me and now I love it. I don't know exactly what causes that process, but somehow that explanation makes sense to me.

I am not an expert in any sense of the word, but I'm just offering a possible explanation for this :)

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